The Parents

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 Which of Allah’s favour's would you deny? 

The parents are our blessings from him as the most high 


It is our duty to Cherish and respect them.

I ask for Allah's Prayers and wishes all the time. 


Their words sometimes hurt me like those bullets

But I understand that they are my biggest well wishers


They do all these to me because they wish me good always 

We may loose our friends but parents never loose us. 


A day I thought the purpose about Life, existence and death. 

I found nothing except worshipping Allah is the best. 


Next comes my mother as the prophet said

Who gave me one meaning to this life and the next. 


Next comes my father, the one who rejoices me. 

I understood that my pleasure and joy lies in between them.


I wish My father’s face to glow with happiness 

I wish my mother to stay healthy and always young 


But they think that one and only I'm their everything.

Oh Allah! care for them as they cared me when I'm young.

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